God shows up: the Noah's adoption story

Posted with permission by Gary and Catherine Noah, who have attended Oak Mountain for the past eight years and who recently adopted Mary Blake. Here’s their story of God’s faithfulness:

Adoption is all about taking the next step, even when where you’re headed isn’t clear or visible. You take the next step because God has called you there and He promises to show up. That’s all you have to go on, usually. And that’s all you need.

But it’s hard. Hard to trust that there’s a point to the story when you don’t even know which story is being told, when you don’t know what comes next, when you don’t even know the ending.

It’s there in the confusion, the frustration, the anger, the despair, the aimlessness that God shows up.

Adoption was like that for us—not knowing the whole story but fighting to trust God to show up in the face of seeming impossibility. Here’s how He showed up for us:

We knew that we were called to adopt even before we were married.  We made the decision to pursue getting pregnant first, but after two years and much disappointment, we decided it was time to pursue adoption.  While this wasn’t plan B and we had always felt like the Lord would one day grow our family through adoption, it was heartbreaking to not experience pregnancy.

Little did we know, the adoption process would be heartbreaking in its own way.

While preparing our application for Lifeline Children’s Services, we were contacted about a baby that was up for adoption through another agency.  We jumped right in, even going to the hospital and meeting the baby and birth mother at delivery.  Just a few days later, the birth mother changed her mind.  We were devastated.  

We decided to continue the adoption process and filed our paperwork with Lifeline as originally planned.  Several months later, we got the call that a birth mother had chosen us.  We were thrilled!  We were able to meet her before the baby was born and then go to the hospital at delivery.  We felt confident that this was our baby, but a week later, we got the news that we would not be getting the baby.  Our hearts broke again.

Shortly after, another birth mother chose us.  This time it was twins.  Again, a few days after delivery, we received the call that she had changed her mind.  We couldn’t believe this was happening to us for a third time, but we held on to the fact that the Lord had called us to this.  He never promised it would be easy or painless but He did promise that He would be with us along the way and would give us all that we needed to continue the journey. It’s all we had. And all we needed. But it was hard. Really hard.

Just a few months later, the rest of our story was written and Mary Blake Noah was born.  We got the call when she was five days old and had her home in our arms when she was just three weeks old. Now, at 13 months old, she is a daily visible reminder of God’s faithfulness to us.

It’s not the road we would have chosen, but it’s the road the Lord had to lead us on to teach us the things that He did. His kindness came to us through the people of Oak Mountain. They spoke truth when we needed to hear it, they reminded us of the gospel when we struggled to believe, they prayed for us, encouraged us, and had hope for us when we had none. OMC’s Porch Light Ministry also helped us financially by giving us a matching grant that helped with our final adoption cost.

In other words, God showed up. He always has. He always will. To God be the Glory, Great things HE has done!

Porch Light Orphan and Foster Care Ministry

Following on the heels of this blog’s last entry entitled “The Church: An Aircraft Carrier,” where we "zoomed out" on the bigger picture of God's mercy to and through us, over the next several months we’ll “zoom in” on the existing Mercy Ministries at Oak Mountain Church.  This will enable  you to be aware of what’s already going on, the purpose and scope of each ministry, and contact information so you can know how to become involved. In addition, we’ll be sharing stories of people who have walked with Jesus more closely because of these ministries.

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Part of Oak Mountain Church’s vision is to follow God’s command to “look after orphans and widows” (James 1:27) by supporting foster care and adoption through training, financial assistance, and connecting people with resources. The church’s foster care and adoption ministry is called the Porch Light, which comes from the idea that a porch light left on says “Welcome. We’ve been expecting you,” and it’s this idea that’s behind the mission statement of this ministry: “Until every child has a home.”

Porch Light has embraced the philosophy of Christian Alliance for Orphans who state, “Working together, our joint initiatives inspire, equip, and connect Christians to ‘defend the fatherless’ (Isaiah 1:7).”  Click here to learn more. 

An exciting part of Porch Light Foster Care and Orphan Ministry is financial assistance for families interested in pursuing adoption but who don’t have the resources to fund or fully fund that desire.  How encouraging to know that there’s this kind of help for those undertaking the often-daunting adoption process!

Another aspect of this ministry is respite care, which gives foster care families a needed break. Click here to read the story of a mother whose heart was deeply impacted as she allowed God to use her to minister to a child and his foster care family.

God has always been in the business of bringing His children home and welcoming them unconditionally, and He graciously allows us to demonstrate His love in the same way, by giving children a home. Stay tuned for the story of a family who did just that!

If you want to learn more about how to become involved in the Porch Light Ministry (foster care, respite care, or adoption support) or if you need assistance in the adoption process, please contact Ken Jones at kjones@oakmountainchurch.org or 205.981.4335.

For a complete list of Mercy Ministries at Oak Mountain Church, please see the “Mercy Umbrella” at the bottom of this blog.

The Church: an Aircraft Carrier

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While this blog often hosts stories of God’s mercy at work in and through people, it will also take moments to “zoom out” and see the bigger vision for how and why we respond to God’s mercy. Our recent focus at OMC on generosity brings to mind a picture our senior pastor has previously used of an aircraft carrier to illustrate how God’s mercy not only fills us, but also compels us to share His mercy with others.

To break down the analogy, let’s start with a little background on aircraft carriers:

• An aircraft carrier’s purpose is to enable specific missions to be carried out. 
• It is strategically located in the position of greatest effectiveness.
• Its commanders convey essential information and keep crew members aware and trained in order to be prepared.
• The service crew keeps the planes conditioned: evaluating, tuning and fueling.
• Skilled pilots understand their role.
• It has up-to-the-minute intelligence of the greatest need.
• The unity of purpose among commanders, crew and pilots in order to most effectively launch the aircraft for their appointed missions is crucial.

Our church and the Church universal are to function in a similar way, both locally and globally. 

• We come together at church for information, training, and fueling. 
• Then we are launched into the world into positions of greatest effectiveness, using the gifts and passions and callings God has given us. 
• We return regularly to evaluate effectiveness and to make necessary corrections, for new information, for R and R, for refueling and subsequent re-launching.
• And teamwork is essential; we need the whole body of Christ.

The idea is that the church is BOTH a place of rest and refueling AND a place to launch into Kingdom work. Refueling without launching is both pointless and lethargic, while launching without fueling leads to burnout. The church’s role is BOTH receiving and giving, a constant flow back and forth: receive from Christ, give to others, receive from Christ, give to others. One cannot exist without the other.

This is especially applicable in our season of stewardship with its fresh focus on generosity. Giving isn’t just financial. Francis Schaeffer said, “All of life is spiritual,” so God calls us to steward our money, yes, but also our time, skills, talents, training, expertise, energy, and passions.